How to Prevent Senior Fraud with the PROVE IT Method™

Fraud Prevention Is About More Than Avoiding Scams

Imagine answering your phone and hearing what sounds exactly like your grandson.

He's upset.

He says he's been in an accident.

He begs you not to tell anyone.

He needs money immediately.

Your heart races.

Before you have time to think, you're making decisions based on fear instead of facts.

Unfortunately, this is how many scams begin.

Fraud is no longer limited to suspicious emails or strangers knocking on the front door. Today's criminals use sophisticated technology, emotional manipulation, and carefully planned deception to convince honest people to act before they have time to verify the facts. They may impersonate a government agency, your bank, Medicare, a utility company, a family member, or even someone you've trusted for years.

The goal is almost always the same: to obtain your money, personal information, or identity.

The encouraging news is that knowledge remains one of the strongest forms of protection.

Understanding how scams work—and why they work—can dramatically reduce your risk of becoming a victim.

This guide is designed to help you recognize common fraud tactics, understand how scammers think, protect your personal and financial information, and know exactly what to do if something doesn't seem right.

Fraud prevention isn't about becoming suspicious of everyone.

It's about becoming confident in your ability to verify information before making important decisions.

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Why Fraud Prevention Matters

Fraud affects people of every age, education level, and income. No one is immune. Criminals continually adapt their methods to exploit current events, new technologies, and human emotions.

Older adults are often targeted because scammers may believe they are more likely to answer phone calls, have accumulated savings, own a home, or be viewed as trustworthy. These assumptions are stereotypes—not realities—but they influence how criminals choose their targets. Government agencies and consumer protection organizations continue to warn that fraud schemes directed at older adults remain a significant concern.

The financial consequences can be devastating, but the emotional impact can be just as profound.

Victims frequently report feelings of embarrassment, anger, anxiety, or a loss of confidence. Some become reluctant to answer the phone, use the internet, or trust legitimate businesses.

That's why education is so important.

Learning how scams work doesn't just help protect your finances—it helps preserve your confidence, independence, and peace of mind.

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Why Older Adults Are Frequently Targeted

One of the biggest misconceptions about fraud is that criminals target older adults because they are easier to deceive.

That simply isn't true.

Scammers are opportunists. They look for situations that increase their chances of success.

Older adults may be targeted because they are more likely to:

• Answer phone calls from unknown numbers.

• Have retirement savings, home equity, or established credit.

• Be managing healthcare, Medicare, or Social Security matters.

• Value courtesy and respond politely to callers.

• Live alone, making them more vulnerable to isolation tactics.

• Want to help family members during emergencies.

None of these qualities are weaknesses.

In fact, many reflect admirable traits such as trust, generosity, responsibility, and kindness.

Unfortunately, scammers exploit those very qualities.

Rather than relying on sophisticated hacking, many criminals rely on social engineering—the art of manipulating people into voluntarily sharing information or sending money.

That's why fraud prevention begins with understanding human behavior as much as technology.

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Understanding How Scammers Think

This may be the single most important section in this guide.

Scammers don't succeed because they're smarter than their victims.

They succeed because they understand human psychology.

Whether the scam arrives by phone, email, text message, social media, or even in person, the underlying strategy is remarkably consistent.

They create urgency.

They create fear.

They create excitement.

They create confusion.

And above all, they try to prevent you from slowing down long enough to verify what's happening.

Think about the last time you felt rushed.

Perhaps you were trying to catch a flight, respond to an emergency, or solve an unexpected problem.

When people feel pressure, the brain naturally shifts toward making quick decisions rather than careful ones.

Criminals know this.

That's why you may hear phrases like:

• "Your account will be closed today."

• "You must act immediately."

• "Don't tell anyone until this is resolved."

• "This offer expires in the next hour."

• "Your grandchild needs help right now."

These statements are designed to bypass careful thinking and trigger an emotional response.

One of the most effective ways to protect yourself is to recognize the emotional tactics before responding to the request itself.

When you learn to identify manipulation, you'll be better prepared to recognize not only today's scams but also new fraud schemes that haven't even been invented yet.

That is one of the guiding principles behind the Silver Streak PROVE It™ Method, which you'll learn later in this guide.

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Today's Most Common Scams Targeting Older Adults

While scammers continually adapt their tactics, most fraud schemes fall into a handful of recognizable categories. Understanding these broad patterns can help you identify warning signs before they become costly mistakes.

Some of the most common scams reported to consumer protection agencies include:

• Government impersonation scams

• Bank and credit card fraud

• Medicare and healthcare scams

• Social Security impersonation

• Package delivery text scams

• Email phishing attacks

• Tech support scams

• Romance scams

• Investment and cryptocurrency fraud

• Charity scams, particularly after natural disasters

• Identity theft

• AI-generated voice or video impersonation scams

Although the details vary, the methods often remain the same.

Someone contacts you unexpectedly.

They create a sense of urgency.

They ask you to provide personal information, transfer money, purchase gift cards, or click on a link.

They pressure you to act before verifying the situation.

Recognizing these recurring patterns is far more valuable than memorizing individual scams. Criminals constantly change their stories, but the underlying tactics rarely change.

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How Fraud Finds You

Fraud doesn't always arrive looking suspicious. More often, it appears as something familiar—a phone call from your bank, a text about a package, an email from a company you recognize, or even a message that seems to come from a loved one. Understanding how scams reach you is one of the best ways to recognize them before they succeed.

Fraud That Starts with a Phone Call

Phone scams remain one of the most common ways criminals target older adults. A scammer's goal is to create enough fear, urgency, or excitement that you act before verifying who is really calling.

Common examples include:

• Government impersonation (IRS, Social Security, Medicare)

• Bank fraud alerts

• Tech support scams

• Utility shutoff threats

• Grandparent or family emergency scams

• Jury duty or law enforcement scams

How It Works

The caller claims to represent someone you know or trust. They may say your account has been compromised, your Medicare benefits are at risk, or a loved one needs emergency financial help. They often "spoof" their caller ID so the number appears legitimate.

Warning Signs

• Pressure to act immediately

• Requests for gift cards, wire transfers, cryptocurrency, or payment apps

• Threats of arrest, legal action, or loss of benefits

• Requests to keep the conversation secret

• Demands for passwords, verification codes, or personal information

Fraud That Starts with a Text Message

Package delivery notifications.

Bank security alerts.

Unpaid toll road notices.

Messages claiming your account has been suspended.

Text message scams—often called smishing—have become increasingly common because they arrive on a device we carry everywhere: our phones. Many people glance at a text and tap a link before taking a moment to consider whether it's legitimate.

How It Works

Scammers send text messages that appear urgent or routine. They often include a link and ask you to confirm personal information, pay a small fee, or log in to an account. The link may lead to a fake website designed to steal your passwords or financial information.

Warning Signs

• Unexpected messages about deliveries, tolls, or account problems.

• Links that use shortened or unusual web addresses.

• Poor grammar or awkward wording.

• Requests for immediate payment or login credentials.

• Messages from unknown numbers claiming to represent trusted organizations.

Fraud That Starts with an Email

Email remains one of the most common ways criminals attempt to steal personal information, passwords, and financial account details. While many fraudulent emails are easy to spot, others are remarkably convincing. Some even include company logos, professional formatting, and language that closely resembles legitimate communications.

The goal is simple: get you to click a link, download an attachment, or provide sensitive information.

How It Works

Most email scams, commonly known as phishing, begin with a message that appears to come from a trusted source. It may claim to be from your bank, a retailer, a shipping company, your email provider, or a government agency.

The email often creates a sense of urgency by telling you:

• Your account has been locked.

• Suspicious activity has been detected.

• A payment could not be processed.

• A package is waiting for delivery.

• Your password is about to expire.

• You have received a refund or unexpected payment.

When you click the link, you're often directed to a website that looks legitimate but is designed to steal your username, password, or financial information.

Some phishing emails also include attachments that may install malicious software if opened.

Warning Signs

Although phishing emails have become more sophisticated, many still contain clues that something isn't right.

Be cautious if an email:

• Asks you to verify personal or financial information.

• Creates urgency or threatens consequences if you don't respond immediately.

• Contains unexpected attachments.

• Includes links that don't match the organization's official website.

• Uses generic greetings like "Dear Customer."

• Contains spelling, grammar, or formatting errors.

• Offers something that seems too good to be true.

Fraud That Begins with an Online Message

Not every scam arrives by phone or email. Increasingly, criminals are reaching people through social media, online marketplaces, messaging apps, and dating websites. These scams often begin with what appears to be a friendly conversation, a business opportunity, or a request from someone who seems familiar.

Because these interactions often develop over days, weeks, or even months, they can feel more personal and trustworthy than a random phone call or email.

How It Works

An online scam usually begins with a message.

Someone may send you a friend request on Facebook, contact you through Instagram, respond to an item you're selling online, or start a conversation through a dating website or messaging app.

At first, nothing seems unusual.

The conversation feels natural. They may compliment you, share common interests, or claim to have mutual friends. Some scammers spend weeks building trust before asking for anything at all.

Eventually, the conversation changes.

They may ask you to invest in a business opportunity, send money to help with an emergency, purchase gift cards, move the conversation to a different messaging app, or share personal information.

Their story may change, but the objective remains the same: to gain your trust before asking you to take an action that benefits them.

Common Online Scams

• Romance scams.

• Fake investment opportunities.

• Marketplace buying and selling scams.

• Charity scams following natural disasters or major news events.

• Social media impersonation.

• Fake job offers and work-from-home opportunities.

• Prize and sweepstakes scams.

Warning Signs

Be cautious if someone:

• Wants to move the conversation away from the original platform.

• Declares strong feelings or trust unusually quickly.

• Avoids meeting in person or participating in a live video conversation.

• Asks for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or financial assistance.

• Promises guaranteed investment returns or "risk-free" opportunities.

• Encourages secrecy or tells you not to discuss the relationship with family or friends.

• Has a profile with very little history, few personal interactions, or photos that seem overly polished or inconsistent.

What To Do

Enjoy meeting new people online—but protect yourself.

Take time to verify who you're communicating with before sharing personal information or sending money.

If someone asks for financial help, stop and ask yourself why. Genuine relationships are built on trust, not financial transactions.

If you're considering an investment, research the opportunity independently and consult a qualified financial professional before making any decisions.

Most importantly, don't allow embarrassment to keep you from asking someone you trust for a second opinion. An outside perspective can often recognize warning signs that are difficult to see when emotions are involved.

Fraud That Uses Artificial Intelligence (AI)

Artificial intelligence is transforming the way we work, communicate, and access information. Unfortunately, criminals are also using AI to make their scams more convincing than ever before.

In the past, scam emails often contained poor grammar or obvious mistakes. Today, AI can generate polished emails, realistic text messages, and even voices that sound remarkably like someone you know.

As these tools become more advanced, it's becoming increasingly difficult to rely on appearances—or even familiar voices—to determine whether something is genuine.

The good news is that while technology has changed, the best way to protect yourself has not.

Slowing down, verifying independently, and refusing to act under pressure remain some of the most effective defenses against AI-enabled fraud.

How AI Scams Work

Artificial intelligence allows criminals to create convincing messages in a matter of seconds. They may use AI to write professional-looking emails, create fake customer service chats, generate realistic photos, or clone a person's voice from short audio clips found in videos or social media posts.

One of the most concerning developments is voice cloning.

Using publicly available recordings, scammers can create a computer-generated voice that closely resembles a family member or friend. They may call claiming there's been an accident, an arrest, or another emergency and ask you to send money immediately.

Some scams even combine AI-generated voices with caller ID spoofing, making the situation appear even more believable.

Common AI-Enabled Scams

Criminals are increasingly using AI to:

• Clone the voice of a loved one during a fake emergency.

• Write convincing phishing emails with fewer spelling or grammar mistakes.

• Create fake customer service chats or online support messages.

• Produce realistic-looking photographs or identification documents.

• Generate fake social media profiles that appear authentic.

• Assist in creating fraudulent investment opportunities or financial promotions.

Although the technology may be new, the goal remains the same: to gain your trust before asking for money, personal information, or account access.

Warning Signs

AI-generated scams can be difficult to recognize, but there are still important warning signs.

Be cautious if someone:

• Creates an urgent emergency that requires immediate action.

• Insists you stay on the phone or keep the situation secret.

• Requests payment through gift cards, wire transfers, cryptocurrency, or payment apps.

• Claims there isn't enough time to verify the situation.

• Refuses to let you speak with another family member or trusted person.

• Pressures you to make a decision based on emotion instead of facts.

Remember, even if the voice sounds familiar, the situation itself may not be.

What To Do

If you receive an unexpected call or message from someone claiming to be a loved one in trouble:

Pause before reacting.

Take a deep breath and resist the urge to act immediately.

Hang up and call your loved one using the phone number you already have saved—not the number that contacted you.

If you can't reach them, contact another family member or close friend who may know their whereabouts.

If the caller claims to represent a business or government agency, end the conversation and contact that organization using its official website or a phone number you already know is legitimate.

A few extra minutes spent verifying could prevent a costly mistake.

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Identity Theft: Protecting Your Personal Information

Identity theft is more than a financial crime—it can disrupt nearly every aspect of your life. A stolen Social Security number, Medicare number, credit card, or online account can be used to open new accounts, make unauthorized purchases, file fraudulent tax returns, obtain medical services, or commit other crimes using your identity.

Recovering from identity theft often takes time, patience, and careful documentation. That's why prevention remains your strongest defense.

The good news is that many cases of identity theft can be prevented by developing a few simple habits and staying alert to the warning signs.

How Identity Theft Happens

Many people picture identity theft as a hacker breaking into a computer, but that's only one possibility.

In reality, criminals often collect small pieces of personal information over time. One scam may reveal your date of birth. Another may expose your email address. A data breach may provide your password. A phishing email might capture your login credentials.

Once enough information has been gathered, criminals can begin impersonating you.

Identity theft may occur through:

• Phishing emails and fraudulent websites.

• Text messages requesting account verification.

• Phone calls impersonating banks or government agencies.

• Data breaches involving businesses or organizations you trust.

• Stolen mail or improperly discarded documents.

• Public Wi-Fi networks that aren't secure.

• Social media posts that reveal personal details.

• Lost or stolen wallets, phones, or computers.

Many victims never realize their information has been stolen until fraudulent charges appear or they receive notices about accounts they never opened.

Warning Signs

Identity theft doesn't always announce itself with a major event. Often, the first clues are subtle.

Watch for warning signs such as:

• Charges on your bank or credit card statements that you don't recognize.

• Bills or collection notices for accounts you never opened.

• Unexpected withdrawals from your financial accounts.

• Notifications that your online password has been changed.

• Calls or letters about government benefits or tax returns you didn't request.

• Medical bills for services you never received.

• Credit applications or loan denials based on accounts you don't recognize.

• Missing mail or statements that suddenly stop arriving.

If something doesn't look right, don't assume it's a simple mistake. Investigating early may help limit additional damage.

What You Can Do to Protect Yourself

While no one can eliminate every risk, you can make it much harder for criminals to steal your identity.

Consider these best practices:

• Protect your Social Security, Medicare, and financial account numbers.

• Use strong, unique passwords for each online account.

• Enable multi-factor authentication whenever it's available.

• Review your bank and credit card statements regularly.

• Monitor your credit reports for unfamiliar activity.

• Shred documents containing sensitive personal information before disposing of them.

• Keep your computer, smartphone, and security software up to date.

• Be thoughtful about the personal information you share online, even with people you know.

Small habits, practiced consistently, can significantly reduce your risk.

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Banking & Financial Fraud: Protecting Your Money

Your bank works hard to protect your accounts, but your first line of defense is you.

Modern banks use sophisticated technology to detect unusual account activity, monitor for suspicious transactions, and help prevent unauthorized access. However, even the best fraud detection systems cannot stop a scam if you voluntarily give a criminal your account information, passwords, or authorization to transfer money.

That's why criminals often focus on convincing you to act before your bank has a chance to help.

The more you understand how financial scams work, the better prepared you'll be to recognize them before money leaves your account.

How Banking Scams Work

Many financial scams begin with a phone call, text message, or email claiming there is a problem with your account.

The message may say your debit card has been locked, someone is attempting to withdraw money, or suspicious activity has been detected.

The goal is to create concern and convince you to act quickly.

Some scammers will ask you to "verify" your account information.

Others may tell you to transfer your money to a "safe account" while the issue is investigated.

Some may even ask you to read back a one-time security code that your bank has texted to you.

These requests should immediately raise concern.

Legitimate financial institutions have security procedures designed to protect your information. They will not ask you to move your money to protect it from fraud, nor will they ask you to share one-time verification codes that are intended only for you.

Common Banking Scams

Financial criminals commonly attempt to:

• Impersonate your bank's fraud department.

• Convince you to transfer money to a "safe" account.

• Ask for online banking usernames and passwords.

• Request one-time security or verification codes.

• Encourage payment by gift card, wire transfer, cryptocurrency, or peer-to-peer payment apps.

• Claim that your account has been compromised and immediate action is required.

No matter how convincing the story sounds, the objective is the same—to gain access to your money.

Warning Signs

Be especially cautious if someone:

• Contacts you unexpectedly about your account.

• Pressures you to act immediately.

• Requests passwords, PINs, or one-time verification codes.

• Instructs you to transfer money to another account.

• Tells you not to contact your bank directly.

• Asks you to stay on the phone while completing transactions.

• Requests payment using gift cards or cryptocurrency.

These requests are not normal banking practices and should be treated as significant warning signs.

What To Do

If you receive an unexpected message about your account:

Do not panic.

Do not click the link in the message.

Do not call the number provided.

Instead:

• Call the customer service number printed on the back of your debit or credit card.

• Log into your account using your bank's official mobile app or by typing the website address directly into your browser.

• Review your recent transactions.

• If something doesn't look right, speak directly with your bank's fraud department.

The sooner suspicious activity is reported, the more options your financial institution may have to help protect your accounts.

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Medicare & Healthcare Fraud: Protecting Your Benefits and Your Health

Your Medicare number is more than just an identification card—it's an important piece of personal information that can be valuable to criminals.

Medicare fraud occurs when someone uses deception to obtain your Medicare number, bill for services that were never provided, or steal your personal information for financial gain. In some cases, scammers may use stolen Medicare information to commit identity theft or obtain medical services in someone else's name.

Protecting your Medicare information helps safeguard not only your benefits but also your medical records and your identity.

How Medicare Scams Work

Scammers often pretend to represent Medicare, a healthcare provider, or a medical equipment company.

They may call, email, text, or even visit your home claiming they need to "verify" your Medicare number, issue you a new Medicare card, or offer free medical equipment or genetic testing.

Some scams promise benefits that sound too good to pass up.

Others create fear by claiming your Medicare coverage is about to expire or that you'll lose important benefits unless you act immediately.

Their goal is to convince you to share your Medicare number or other personal information.

Common Medicare & Healthcare Scams

Be cautious of unexpected offers involving:

• Free back braces, knee braces, or other medical equipment.

• "Free" genetic testing or DNA testing.

• New Medicare cards that require you to verify your information.

• Calls claiming your Medicare benefits are being suspended.

• Health screenings you didn't request.

• Requests to confirm your Medicare number over the phone.

• Offers of services or products in exchange for your Medicare information.

If you didn't request the service, treat the offer with caution.

Warning Signs

A Medicare-related communication deserves extra attention if someone:

• Contacts you unexpectedly and asks for your Medicare number.

• Promises free products with "no strings attached."

• Pressures you to make a decision immediately.

• Requests payment before providing services.

• Claims your Medicare benefits are about to expire unless you act now.

• Asks you to verify personal or financial information during an unsolicited call, text, or email.

Remember, a professional tone or official-looking logo does not guarantee that a communication is legitimate.

What To Do

If someone contacts you unexpectedly about your Medicare benefits:

Do not provide your Medicare number or other personal information.

Instead:

• Ask for the caller's name, organization, and reason for contacting you.

• End the conversation if you feel pressured or uncomfortable.

• Contact Medicare directly using the official number on your Medicare card or visit the official Medicare website.

• Review your Medicare Summary Notice (MSN) or Explanation of Benefits (EOB) for services you don't recognize.

• Report suspicious activity promptly if you believe your Medicare information has been misused.

Reviewing your Medicare statements regularly is one of the easiest ways to identify unauthorized services before they become a larger problem.

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Romance & Investment Scams: When Trust Becomes a Tool

Some scams don't begin with threats or urgent phone calls.

They begin with kindness.

A friendly conversation.

A shared interest.

An exciting investment opportunity.

A promise of companionship or financial success.

Unlike many scams that rely on immediate pressure, romance and investment scams often unfold over weeks or even months. During that time, criminals work to earn your trust before asking for money, personal information, or access to your financial accounts.

The relationship may feel genuine.

The investment opportunity may appear legitimate.

Unfortunately, both can be carefully planned schemes designed to separate you from your money.

How These Scams Work

Romance scams often begin on dating websites, social media platforms, or messaging apps. A scammer creates a fake identity and gradually builds an emotional connection. They may communicate daily, express affection quickly, and share convincing stories about their life.

Eventually, an emergency arises.

They may claim they're stranded while traveling, facing a medical crisis, or need help accessing money they've promised to repay. The request may start small but often grows over time.

Investment scams follow a similar pattern.

Instead of building a romantic relationship, the scammer builds financial confidence. They may present themselves as an experienced investor, a successful business owner, or someone who has discovered an exclusive opportunity.

Some even show fake account statements or online dashboards that appear to demonstrate impressive profits.

In both cases, the goal is the same: earn your trust before asking you to take a financial risk.

Warning Signs

Be cautious if someone:

• Develops a close relationship unusually quickly.

• Avoids meeting in person or participating in a live video conversation.

• Asks you to keep the relationship or investment private.

• Requests money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or wire transfers.

• Promises guaranteed or unusually high investment returns.

• Pressures you to "act now" before an opportunity disappears.

• Becomes defensive or upset when you ask questions or request documentation.

Healthy relationships and legitimate investments welcome reasonable questions. Scammers often see questions as obstacles to their plan.

What To Do

Take your time.

Whether you're considering a new relationship or an investment opportunity, don't let anyone rush you into making an emotional or financial decision.

Talk with someone you trust before sending money or making an investment. A family member, trusted friend, financial advisor, attorney, or banker may notice warning signs that are difficult to see when you're personally involved.

If an investment is being promoted, research the company independently. Check whether the investment professional is properly registered, read information from trusted financial regulators, and never rely solely on testimonials or online reviews provided by the person making the offer.

Most importantly, remember this:

Anyone who genuinely cares about you—or legitimately wants your business—will respect your decision to take time, ask questions, and verify the facts.

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The Silver Streak PROVE It™ Method

One Simple Habit That Can Help Prevent Costly Mistakes

By now, you've seen a common theme throughout this guide.

Whether fraud begins with a phone call, a text message, an email, an online relationship, or an AI-generated voice, scammers almost always rely on the same tactics. They create urgency. They trigger emotions. They pressure you to act before you've had time to think.

The stories change.

The technology changes.

But the psychology rarely does.

That's why we developed the PROVE It™ Method.

Rather than trying to memorize hundreds of different scams, the PROVE It™ Method gives you a simple framework you can use anytime someone asks for your money, your personal information, or an immediate decision.

It isn't about becoming suspicious of everyone.

It's about replacing panic with confidence.

P – Pause Before You Act

Scammers want you to react.

They know that fear, excitement, sympathy, and urgency can cloud your judgment.

Your greatest advantage is something they can't control:

Time.

Give yourself permission to slow down.

A few extra minutes spent thinking clearly may prevent months of financial and emotional recovery.

Whenever you receive an unexpected request, make it a habit to pause before responding.

That pause gives you the opportunity to think instead of simply react.

R – Read for Red Flags

Take a closer look before moving forward.

Ask yourself:

• Is someone creating urgency?

• Am I being told to keep this a secret?

• Are they asking for gift cards, cryptocurrency, wire transfers, or payment apps?

• Is someone requesting passwords, verification codes, or personal information?

• Does the story make sense?

• Does anything feel unusual or inconsistent?

Sometimes your instincts recognize a problem before your mind can explain it.

Trust those instincts enough to investigate further.

O – Outreach for a Second Opinion

One conversation can prevent a costly mistake.

Scammers often try to isolate their victims.

They may say:

"Don't tell anyone."

"This has to stay between us."

"There's no time to call someone else."

Those are warning signs.

When something feels unusual, reach out to someone you trust.

That might be:

• A spouse or family member.

• A trusted friend.

• A caregiver.

• Your banker.

• Your attorney.

• Your financial advisor.

• Your pastor or another trusted community leader.

You don't have to make important decisions alone.

Sometimes the best protection is simply asking another person, "What do you think?"

V – Verify Independently

This may be the most important step of all.

Never rely on the contact information provided in an unexpected phone call, text message, email, or social media message.

Instead:

• Call the phone number on the back of your bank card.

• Visit the organization's official website by typing the address into your browser.

• Use the company's official mobile app.

• Contact your family member using the phone number you already have saved.

• Look up businesses using trusted, publicly available information.

If someone discourages you from verifying independently, that alone should raise concern.

Legitimate organizations expect you to protect yourself.

Scammers expect you not to.

E – End the Conversation

One of the most powerful words in fraud prevention is:

No.

You are never obligated to continue a conversation that makes you uncomfortable.

You can hang up.

Delete the text.

Close the email.

Walk away.

Ask for more time.

Or simply say:

"I'd like to verify this independently before I make a decision."

You don't owe anyone an immediate answer.

Protecting yourself is not rude.

It's responsible.

Why the PROVE It™ Method Works

The PROVE It™ Method isn't designed to help you recognize just one scam.

It's designed to help you respond wisely to any unexpected request.

Fraud tactics will continue to evolve.

Artificial intelligence will become more convincing.

Technology will continue to change.

But thoughtful decision-making never goes out of style.

When you make PROVE It™ a habit, you're building a lifelong skill that can help protect your finances, your identity, and your peace of mind.

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What to Do If You Think You've Been Scammed

Discovering that you may have been scammed can be frightening. You may feel embarrassed, angry, confused, or overwhelmed. Those feelings are normal.

The most important thing you can do is act quickly.

Even if you're unsure whether fraud has occurred, taking a few simple steps right away may help limit financial losses, protect your identity, and improve the chances of recovering compromised accounts.

Remember, you don't have to solve everything at once.

Take a deep breath and work through the following steps one at a time.

The First Five Minutes

Your first priority is to stop the scam from continuing.

If you're still communicating with the suspected scammer:

• End the phone call.

• Stop replying to text messages or emails.

• Close suspicious websites.

• Do not send additional money or personal information.

• Do not click any more links or download any attachments.

If you believe you've already shared information, don't panic. Focus on protecting your accounts and documenting what happened.

If possible, write down:

• The date and time of the incident.

• The phone number, email address, or website involved.

• What information you shared.

• Any payments you made.

• Screenshots of messages, emails, receipts, or account activity.

These details may be helpful when reporting the incident or working with your financial institution.

Within the Next 30 Minutes

If money or financial information may have been compromised:

• Contact your bank or credit union immediately.

• Report suspicious debit or credit card activity.

• Ask whether your accounts should be frozen or your cards replaced.

• Change passwords for any affected accounts.

• Enable multi-factor authentication if it isn't already active.

• If you shared a password that you use on multiple accounts, change it everywhere it's used.

The sooner your financial institution is notified, the more options it may have to help protect your accounts.

Within the First Hour

Depending on the type of scam, you may also need to contact other organizations.

For example:

• Report identity theft or fraud to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC).

• Report online crimes, internet-enabled fraud, or phishing scams to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).

• Contact Medicare if your Medicare number may have been compromised.

• Contact the Social Security Administration if your Social Security information has been exposed.

• If your email account was compromised, review your recovery settings and notify your email provider if necessary.

Not every situation requires every report, but documenting the incident with the appropriate organizations can help protect both you and others.

Continue Monitoring Your Accounts

Fraud doesn't always end with the first transaction.

Over the next several weeks, continue to:

• Review your bank and credit card statements.

• Watch for unfamiliar charges.

• Monitor your credit reports for suspicious activity.

• Read your Medicare Summary Notice (MSN) or Explanation of Benefits (EOB) for services you don't recognize.

• Be alert for additional scam attempts. Criminals sometimes target previous victims again, believing they may be more likely to respond.

Staying vigilant after a scam is just as important as responding quickly at the beginning.

Tell Someone You Trust

One of the hardest parts of fraud is that many victims feel embarrassed.

Please don't let embarrassment prevent you from asking for help.

Talk with:

• A trusted family member.

• A close friend.

• Your bank.

• Your attorney or financial advisor.

• A caregiver.

• Another trusted professional.

Fraud thrives in secrecy.

Recovery begins with support.

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Family Preparedness: Building Your Fraud Defense Together

Fraud prevention isn't just an individual responsibility—it works best when families communicate openly and support one another.

Many scams succeed because criminals create urgency and encourage secrecy. They want people to make emotional decisions without taking time to ask questions or seek advice.

One simple conversation today can help prevent a costly mistake tomorrow.

Whether you're an older adult, a caregiver, an adult child, or a trusted friend, having a family fraud prevention plan can provide confidence during stressful situations.

Create a Family Fraud Prevention Plan

Every family is different, but every family benefits from having a plan.

Talk about questions like:

• Who should I call if something doesn't seem right?

• Who can help me review suspicious emails or text messages?

• Where are important financial documents kept?

• Who should be notified if I believe I've been scammed?

• What would we do if someone called claiming there was a family emergency?

These conversations are often easier before there's a crisis.

Establish a Family Safe Word

One of the simplest ways to prepare for today's AI-enabled scams is to create a family safe word or verification phrase.

Choose a word or short phrase that only your immediate family knows.

If someone receives an unexpected phone call claiming a loved one has been injured, arrested, or needs emergency financial help, ask for the safe word before taking further action.

While no single strategy can prevent every scam, a private verification phrase can provide an additional layer of confidence during emotionally charged situations.

Review your safe word periodically and make sure every participating family member understands when it should be used.

Build Your Trusted Contact List

No one should have to make important financial decisions alone.

Create a list of trusted people you can contact before responding to unexpected requests.

Your list might include:

• A spouse or partner.

• An adult child or other family member.

• A trusted friend.

• A caregiver.

• Your banker.

• Your attorney.

• Your financial advisor.

• Your healthcare advocate.

Keep this list somewhere easy to find, and make sure the phone numbers are current.

Practice the PROVE It™ Method Together

The best time to practice is before you need it.

Consider discussing real-life examples during family gatherings.

Ask questions like:

"What would you do if someone called pretending to be me?"

"How would you verify that I was really in trouble?"

"What if you received a text saying your bank account had been locked?"

Practicing these conversations helps everyone become more comfortable slowing down and thinking through unexpected situations.

Caregivers Play an Important Role

Caregivers are often among the first people to notice changes that could indicate financial exploitation.

Pay attention to signs such as:

• Unexplained withdrawals or transfers.

• New "friends" requesting money.

• Unopened bills or unusual financial documents.

• Increased secrecy about finances.

• Confusion after phone calls or online conversations.

• Sudden changes to financial accounts or legal documents.

If something doesn't seem right, begin with a respectful conversation. Many scams succeed because victims are embarrassed or afraid to tell someone what happened.

Approaching the situation with patience and compassion encourages openness and helps preserve trust.

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Fraud Prevention Checklist

Before you leave this guide, take a few minutes to review these simple habits. You don't have to do everything today—but every step you take strengthens your protection against fraud.

Fraud prevention isn't about perfection.

It's about preparation.

Every one of these habits helps build confidence and reduce risk.

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Continue Your Journey

Learning about fraud prevention is one of the most important steps you can take—but it's only one part of protecting your independence and making informed decisions as you age.

Continue exploring trusted resources from the Silver Streak Education Center designed to help older adults, caregivers, and families navigate life's important decisions with confidence.

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About Silver Streak Senior Services

Silver Streak Senior Services is dedicated to helping older adults, families, and caregivers make informed decisions with confidence.

We believe trust should be earned, education should be practical, and every older adult deserves access to reliable information without fear or confusion.

Through our trusted business directory, educational resources, and community partnerships, we work to make good people easier to find while helping families navigate aging with greater peace of mind.

Because growing older shouldn't mean navigating life's challenges alone.

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